I’m reminded one thing God didn’t give us that sometimes we hold on to that’s not meant for us is fear/or make us timid.
2 Timothy 1:7
7 For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.
So what is timid? lacking in self-assurance, courage, or bravery; easily alarmed; characterized by or indicating fear: a timid approach to a problem.
Synonym for timidity (n.) fear of the unknown or unfamiliar or fear of making decisions. Timid people struggle with what they can’t foresee or control and it causes them great pain because they can’t see what would be the outcome of what’s a head (the risk) and because of that they become miserable because even though they know deep down what they need to do they become complacent/indecisive which causes them to feel trapped.
Faith and trust is the only way a timid person can over come, and reach the heights that God wants them to be. This fear tactic used by Satan have a lot of people spinning in a whirlpool and keeping them from getting where God wants them to be.